So, new project in the works. Instead of saving up $1,000 for a new bumper, I'm going to modify what I have. I have a 1/4" plate big enough to span between the bumper frame mounts. The winch will fit between them with 1/16" to spare on each side. I'll cut out one of the bumper tubes and notch down into the other one. Then I'll cut into the plastic piece running horizontally below the grill insert. That should give me the clearance to tuck the winch back in far enough that little or nothing will extend past the front of the bumper except the fairlead. Going to work nicely.
On another note, I should probably look into upgrading my front coils. I know there's a bunch of info around here about that. I think there are some F150 springs or a different pair from Skyjacker that are supposed to do what I need to maintain height with the extra weight I'm going to have.