To this (I'm informing you since you don't know) if the vehicle is a 4x4 (even if it was in 2wd) the added weight of a transfercase, driveshaft, front axle, and larger tires play a very big role in acceleration. The added height of a 4x4 equates to greater wind resistance.
The reason all of "these people" suggest a 4.0L swap is because its economical and easy. Sure, a 5.0L swap would make more power, but its level of difficulty is ten fold over a 4.0L swap. You get very defensive and bitter on the internet (this is the second thread I've noticed). See, the thing is we have experience. We're doing more than suggestions and theories here. The personal experience is a great asset. Once again, I'm not trying to be a "dick" to you. I'm sorry you think we're all "fighting" you, because we're not. We're just stating (from experience) the benefits and cost effectiveness of a 4.0L swap when the OP's goal is more power on a budget.