We ended up getting the E7ZZ-6E008-A from ebay, actually we got it in a 2 pack so we have an extra if we ever need one again. We got the truck put back together yesterday and were able to take the truck for it's first test drive with the new cylinder head, we are way up on power over where it was with the misfire/cracked head and 1/2 the compression on the number 1 cyl.
During the test drive, we had a lot of white smoke and I was wondering if we might have pinched/scratched the head gasket when installing the new head, but it went away within about 2-3 minutes. But, we'll keep an eye on that and see how things play out, I sure don't want to but a 3rd head gasket on it in less than 3 months, lol. At this point everything in the motor, minus the short block, is completely new and is working as expected.