Well, let's look at what you've done. You suspected the fuel pump, so you put a new one in. You now have the same symptoms. I would stop, for now, with the fuel pump and start looking at things upstream from the fuel pump (wiring, etc.). I know it's easy to blame the fuel pump, because that's something easily fixed/replaced, but if it were me, I would assume that two fuel pumps doing the same thing means that it's not the problem. It's a possibility, but it's a lesser possibility than some other things.</soapbox>
Going by an online repair manual, steps for diagnosing are:
1. Checking voltage at the connector
2. Checking inertia switch for continuity
3. Checking to make sure the connector is not loose or open at the fuel pump
4. Checking the relay by manually energizing it (grounding it)
5. Checking for plugged fuel lines
And if you're really into having fun, you might get a 5 gallon bucket, some hose, and trying to bench test the fuel pump to see if it's really the problem.
I know you said you don't have a multimeter nor how to use one, but if you want to fix problems like this by yourself, you're going to need to get and learn to use one, unfortunately. It's much cheaper than throwing parts at it...