I watched your video. It sounds like your having a fuel issue or the timing is severly off. How does it idle? Hard to tell in the video and on my shitty laptop speakers.
I would suggest putting a fuel pressure gauge on the shrader valve that is on the fuel rail. Its on the driver side just next to the intake manifold. Next is to get the truck warm, Let it idle for a bit so it warms up and check your base timing. Factory should be 10degrees BTDC. I think fuel pressure should be between 30 to 50 psi? Im not sure on the exact amount for these trucks. thats just a general pressure for most early efi and fuel injection systems.
Double check that you dont have your plug wires backwards. Firing the wrong cylinder at the wrong time can give you the same symptoms.
Also you mentioned you had oil on 4 of the 6 plugs. How much oil? This an indication of Blow By which is caused by worn piston rings or failed PCV system. Oil doesnt burn as efficient as fuel... lol.
As ADSM08 added about the FPR, i noticed it says hes a Ford Technician. I however am not one for ford but am a technician. Most times a FPR maintains the correct pressure in the rail regardless of throtle position, the ECM lengthens the injector pulse width to give you more fuel at WOT. Again that is a general statement not particularly to do with FORD. Each manufacture has their own unique and stupid way of doing the same thing.
Try to borrow some tools, or buy tools (having a old truck like this you should have most of your basic tools anyways). Or take it to a known good mechanic.
Throwing parts at a vehicle in attempt to fix it is no way to repair a vehicle and can get very costly.
Hope this helps! Heres a quick check list again.
Fuel Pressure (fuel pressure gauge on shrader valve)
Correct Plug wire Placement (go to tech section for firing order) Pass side is cyl 1,2,3 driver side is cyl 4,5,6. Start with 1 then go from there.
Base Timing (timing light)
Best of luck!
Matt