.....ask questions yourself. I LOVE hearing people ask about benefits, how our holiday pay is structured, and even the history of the company. Ask about those things. It makes you sound much more interested than the next guy.
This where I get up, bang my hands on the table and ask them sternly
"ARE YOU READY TO ROLL UP YOUR SLEEVES AND GET TO WORK ??"
All kidding aside, may I suggest a couple of books which have shaped my way of thinking:
1) How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie
IIRC, there is a chapter on public speaking
2) Unusually Excellent by John Hamm (Do they know you care ??)
The author quotes "Your biggest test as a leader is to motivate each member of your team to become fully engaged in the success of your project/task. That can only occur if you are engaged with them in their success."
Pretty basic requirements to get your foot in door.....
GOOD TRAITS:
Be sound of wind and limb
Be in good health
Be obedient
Easy to train, courageous, confident and calm
BAD TRAITS:
Be a nail biter (way down to the cuticle is not good)
Recoil under any circumstances
Have bad habits like 'running away from work detail(s), altercate, or attacking
Hope this helps-