1st date

[Kdawg532]

Any tips??? i am kinda nervous cause this is the first one i have EVER HAD!!

is this the right place to post these off topic things??

 

[Sprag-O]

Where are you going on said first date?

 

[Kdawg532]

carrabba's

 

[chico4554]

what the hell is that?

just be yourself. How long have you known her? Be interested in what she does by asking follow-up questions. I find that I can talk about pretty much anything just by asking simple questions, then relating. If she likes you, you guys will go out again.

good luck! dont spend too much money on her!

 

[Sprag-O]

Italian grille eh? Sounds good. Just don't jump her the first night

Oh, and don't drive nuts on the first date... Save that till they're used to you

 

[Kdawg532]

i've known er for about two years but we just started talking not to long ago, thanks for the advice guys. well sprag-O i am not much of a crazy driver anymore to many close calls if ya know what i mean hehe.
but thanks

 

[Danger-Ranger96]

just play it cool, i've been in a relationship for 4 months now and i'm just being myself, asking questions about her helps (it did with me) like where she works and what not. i'd have to agree on relating, relating works well and a MAJOR plus is if you can get her to laugh, if you can get any girl to laugh you're in her good books. Chicks love to laugh

 

[reginald fairfield]

Don't get drunk.

 

[Danger-Ranger96]

Oh and dress nice too, i forgot about that, taking the time to show pride in yourself really is a plus. Shows her that your really confident about yourself and what not, confidence is key.

 

[Kdawg532]

yeah i have gotten her to laugh on previous occasions, and i dont drink so i guess i dont have to worry about getting drunk lol

 

[Kdawg532]

i was planning on some nice kaki's with a nice shirt and a matching tie

 

[Southern3.0]

Chico pretty much coverd it, even if what she has to say is boarding as all hell just go with it, nod your head and agree. Don't get to attached, dont seem desperate or obsessed and most of all dont spend to much.

 

[Robin Hood]

Unless you know she's getting dressed up and its a "fancy" date then I wouldn't wear anything too fancy, being yourself generally doesn't include a tie...

The hardest thing is to not get the awkward moments when you can't think of something to say, and you end up saying something lame, but then you laugh over it and its all good.

Just relax, and don't make a huge deal out of it.

Good Luck

 

[Kdawg532]

all these tips are making me feel alot more confident.. i was feeling kinda nervous. thanks for all the help!!! any more tips will be greatly appreciated!!!
THANK YOU!!!

 

[reginald fairfield]

Don't get high either.