In 2000, the level sender reads 22 ohms at Empty and 145 ohms for Full.
So, short the YE/Wh wire to ground (or to the BK/OG wire at the tank connector), and it should read zero. Be advised that it takes "some time" for the gage to respond if you do this with the key on. That will give you an idea that the slosh module is working. It sounds as if your gage is bad because it can't be disconnected if you have power.
I would recommend doing the shorting first, then turn the key and watch the gage drop to empty, turning the key Off as it gets into the red. Remove the short, turn the key back on and watch the opposite response toward Full.
If the other gages are reading properly, (oil pressure, voltmeter, tach, coolant temp) then you can be sure that the fuel gage portion of the instrument cluster is getting power. They all use the same fuse. Look elsewhere for your fuel gage wiring problem.
Have you been inside that large square connector under the driver seat yet?
2000 also shows that the YE/WH wire goes all the way to the cluster and is spliced off to the PCM, pin 12 (wire color remains YE/WH the entire length). Since you don't seem to having luck at the tank connector, your next connection is the one under the driver seat. Yep the BK/WH wire to G101 goes through this connector too!
The ground for the sender is on the left top of the radiator support (G101) when using the Instrument Panel schematic.
CONFLICT:
The ground for the level sender is shown as G201 in the engine controls schematic. That ground is under the PS kick panel, outboard. Things may be way different for newer than 2000. It sounds like a no ground for the gage issue based on what you have done so far.