OK lets do this step by step
Picture of starter motor, with relay/solenoid:
https://www.idmsvcs.com/2vmod/starter/solenoidspadeterminal/PICT6197.jpg
The larger post labelled B in the picture connects directly to Battery Positive
This can be connected to battery positive at the inner fender starter relay, by both cables being on the same larger post
Picture of starter relay(often mispronounced as starter solenoid, lol):
https://i.pinimg.com/736x/8d/b0/f8/8db0f8f2bc09fb31756648c36b8404b4.jpg
One of the larger posts has several wires, thats the Battery positive post, doesn't matter which one, as long as all those wires are on that one post
And one of the wires is battery positive and another is wire to the large B post on starter, if you think this cable to B is bad then replace it
Battery positive terminal-----large cable-------starter relay post---------larger cable-------------starter motor B post
That's the wiring for "spinning" the starter, this hook up needs to pass 65 amps so if it doubt replace the larger cable, both if you feel its needed
Activating the starter motor
In the starter relay picture its labelled "trigger" and has a green line, its a red/blue stripe wire
This wire has 12v with key turned to START
IF..........this relay is grounded(base screwed to metal inner fender) then when key is turned to START this relay should "click" closed(trans needs to be in Park or clutch pedal down)
When relay "clicks" closed the TWO larger posts are now connected together inside the relay
One post is battery positive(12v), so now the other post has 12v as well
The other post just has one smaller wire connected, the small red one in the picture
This smaller wire runs down to starter motors "S" post low current trigger, small post
When the "S" post gets the 12v it activates the solenoid that move the starter gear out AND it connects the two larger posts together which cause motor to spin
If the motor doesn't spin then its not connected to battery positive, so bad cable or bad relay part inside the relay/solenoid
This is a hybrid system only used for a few years
The smaller "trigger" wire on inner fender relay was extended and connected directly to the starter motors "S" post, bypassing the inner fender relay
The relay was there for several years because that one larger post with battery positive cable is the 12v distribution post for the whole vehicle
These extra wires on that post are for alternator and engine fuse box, ALL 12volt power comes from that one post