You probably won't like this, but it is what you will have to do to make that system work.
1. Larger alternator, at least 150 amps. This may seem like overkill, but alternators are rated at maximum output for 5 minutes. For continuous operation, the rating is only 60% of max. Your lights will use 45 amps, leaving 35 amps for the rest of your truck. This is not a lot of margin, and does not allow for idling where alternator output is lower.
2. Heavier wire from alternator to carry the extra current. It is likely 10 ga. now and may have a fuse link in it. Use nothing smaller than 6 ga. but 4 ga. is preferred.
3. Use 8 ga. wire from battery to relays with 60 amp fuse as close to the battery as you can get it. If you need more than 4' of this wire go to 6 ga.
4. Relays should only have 2 100 watt lights on them. I know most are rated for 40 amps, but that rating comes from marketing, not engineering.
5. Each light should have 14 ga. wire to the relays and its own 15 amp fuse at the relays. If one lamp or its wiring causes a fuse to blow, you don't want all of the lights to go out.
6. The relay coils may all be connected together if you want one switch control of all the lights.
7. Make sure you protect all the wire with loom and grommets as required to keep it from chafing on any edges or holes it passes through.
Happy Hunting
Paul