I feel bad for all the angst you're going through and all the time and money you're spending. You said you took it to a dealer mechanic. Maybe you just didn't get lucky with the tech to worked on your vehicle. Do you have any way to get recommendation to a really good, Ford only, independent shop? At the dealer, it's hit or miss. Some of those techs are the best Ford techs on the planet while others just got out of school. If you find some good indy shop that's been in business for 20+ years, they'll know things about your car you would not even imagine. Whenever I ask my guys about a repair, they start getting all deep about the original component desings, how they've evolved over time, how they workaround known shortcomings, etc. I just don't think any of us who are not professionals or even an average dealer tech is going to know all of that. Even if you have to drive a bit, it might really end up being worth it.
I don't know shit and you obviously are a better mechanic than me based on all the work you've done. You seem to know you're getting fuel in there now. You haven't mentioned doing a cylinder balance test (3 times) which can't hurt but might not help -- especially since it's a low RPM test. You might post pictures of your plugs so some guru can comment on that. I hope you get it all figured out.