As someone who has been there a couple of times it does make it easier when someone asks, "What is like to lose someone like that?" Then you now can reply, " Now imagine that was someone closer then your brother." They might get what we are willing to sacrifice for the other 99% of America. I am not bitching but people need to understand what service members are willing to do for the greater good of society.
AMEN.
I have had in various branches of the service:
My Uncle :Green Bere, served multiple tours in multiple conflicts over the last 30 years
A man who was like my brother: National Guard, served a double tour in Iraq which indirectly resulted in a very famous speaker being permanently dismissed from the campus of our college after making some strong anti-military remarks.
3 of my best friends from my childhood, one of whom is still in Iraq
and one of my current best friends is shipping out to basic in about 6 months.
I was going to join, but I wasn't stable enough to pass the psych eval. Now I have some other, more physical issues that prevent me from signing up.
I have the highest respect for the men and women who serve our country, and frankly I think its an abomination that certain people are allowed to publicly bash them. I am all for free speech, and freedom of the press, but there is a time and place for everything. During a protracted war (and since it now has lasted longer than both World Wars it does qualify) and in a public media forum is neither to denigrate our servicemen.
That said, I think that it is still important to know just exactly what happens to those who go out and sacrifice themselves for our freedoms and safety. Maybe if a few more people knew just what they went through those things wouldn't be taken for granted so much by so many.