i need some advice, man to man stuff

[lil red]

ok u guys seem to know ur shit so here i go
i am 16
thaers a girl at school,lorelei, and shes freakin amazing
but she just broke up with a friend of mine(hes a douche bag)
and another(suposedly best)friend is tryin to move in on her
should i just see if shes into me as much as she says
or if shes just blowin smoke... well u know where
ok thats it
i just have no idea wat to do
and u guys are the best so
thanks for all ur help in advance
ps,its that kinda,dont sleep,tingly stomach,anchtious kinda feeling goin on , and she says thats wat shes feelin like

 

[Black Widow '90]

dude you have to go get her, you got bit by the love bug and if you sit back and wait, someother guys going to be shacking up with her and you'll still be feeling the same way if not worse, so go find out what she thinks and maybe this could be you

 

[nate12346]

HAHA man you got to love the classic Highschool drama! In my honest oppinion.... Beat this other guy to the puch if he is really goin after her. Go up to her and and say "Hey, I know you just broke up with ""Friend Douche Bag"" and your probably hurting, But how bout I take you to grab some icecream-dessert and catch a movie to take your mind off of things."

But be carefull for the "Friend Zone"

Honestly just be yourself and talk to her and you will know how she feels about you soon

Get get her Tiger!

 

[ForOffRoadDriving]

id say just hang out with her, go get some dinner or go to the store or do something normal with her so you can try to read her better. i know from experience people can be completely different when you get them alone and outside of their natural habitat ( like say school or work, depending on where you know her from). when youre around her with her friends she might act differntly than she would if you were alone with her. you see what im trying to say? hope my advice helps, but for future reference my only true love is my ranger.......sweet sweet ranger.....

 

[baadboy11]

Go get her man, the only thing you got to lose is...NOTHING!! You'll only regret it if you don't...just take her out for icecream, or wheeling in the Ranger...she'll come over to your side once you do that for sure...if not she aint worth it!!

 

[86ford]

show your true colors (who you are and what ya like AKA wheeling or whatever else), tell her you would like to go out on a date(mite take a few trys, if ya get turned down try again a few days or a week later). a bit of bad news tho, if your friend is a complete asshole then that mite be what she likes(younger girls are stupid some times, they like the assholes not the nice guys). feel her out and avoid the friend zone by making some kind of attempt to show your feelings (yea i know i sound gay).

86

 

[97RangerXLT]

Gotta agree witht he rest of the crowd on this one. ask her out!

AJ

 

[PaleBlue90]

show your true colors (who you are and what ya like AKA wheeling or whatever else), tell her you would like to go out on a date(mite take a few trys, if ya get turned down try again a few days or a week later). a bit of bad news tho, if your friend is a complete asshole then that mite be what she likes(younger girls are stupid some times, they like the assholes not the nice guys). feel her out and avoid the friend zone by making some kind of attempt to show your feelings (yea i know i sound gay).

86

i agree with 86, just make shure to keep it slow, dont try to seem to forward you kno? good luck lil red

 

[low~n~blue]

dude if you don't go for it you'l look back and wonder. The worste that can happen is she says no, so just go for it man!

 

[Insanejughead]

Be a kind easy going person, don't be the total decision maker, definitely don't make her pay for everything, bring up things that you enjoy talking about, ask her what she likes doing, be a bit spontaneous, take her skating, try fishing (if she's out-doorsy),

Do not bring up past girlfriends, Do not be the only one talking, do not be completely spineless, show her you are caring but aren't so flexible she could play with you like silly putty.

Take it easy, let the current moment flow into the next, be courteous, have fun, and most importantly don't be stupid!

 

[Silverado]

Take it from a man who's lost plenty of sleep over the years; DO NOT leave things of this nature unsaid.

Just talk to her, tell her how you feel, and see what happens.

You really have NOTHING to lose, but lots to gain if she's as great as you think she is...

 

[projectnitemare]

Yeah right man, she's on the rebound. She'll take you for a ride for a few weeks then toss your a$$. In all honesty 90% of high school relationships are desposible, people just aren't mature enough. I've been there and done that. You might think this is off the wall but probably your best shot. Don't go after her, just be her friend. Some of the best times I can remember was with girls who where my friends. Then from there get to be friends with her friends and so on. You will be able to see if she's really the kind of girl for you instead of your junk telling you that's the girl for you. From there being a friend won't get you ridiculously attached to her, especially if she shoots you down; high school romance is pretty rough. Be a gentleman and smooth them over with your charm; but don't pretend to be someone you aren't though. If you can get in with her and her friends you have a good chance with just about any of them. That works really well in college actually. Ironically while I was in college one of the girls that I was friends with in high school came back to find me, and it went from there.

Matt

 

[86ford]

Yeah right man, she's on the rebound. She'll take you for a ride for a few weeks then toss your a$$. In all honesty 90% of high school relationships are desposible, people just aren't mature enough. I've been there and done that. You might think this is off the wall but probably your best shot. Don't go after her, just be her friend. Some of the best times I can remember was with girls who where my friends. Then from there get to be friends with her friends and so on. You will be able to see if she's really the kind of girl for you instead of your junk telling you that's the girl for you. From there being a friend won't get you ridiculously attached to her, especially if she shoots you down; high school romance is pretty rough. Be a gentleman and smooth them over with your charm; but don't pretend to be someone you aren't though. If you can get in with her and her friends you have a good chance with just about any of them. That works really well in college actually. Ironically while I was in college one of the girls that I was friends with in high school came back to find me, and it went from there.

Matt

i almost like your approach better than mine! both will work but i still vote for trying to go on a date as friends even (NOT be dating).

86

 

[alain]

Go for it, quick.

 

[alpac]

Go for it, quick.

Hi Alain from another Alain. It looks like there are at least two Alains on this site. Rare enough on this side of the world and particularly on a truck forum to be noticeable.