i need some advice, man to man stuff

[ZMan]

If by know you havent gone for it and asked her out, do it soon, i had that girl in high school. i never did ask her out. never did do anything with her.

now 5 years down the line i still hang out with her, we're friends and thats all, ( its well and good too ) sometimes i still think ohh why didnt i do it, maybe i should now lol.

actually turned out she liked me back in highschool, if i had just asked her out, well ya never know

personal experience here go for it or you will regret it. and if ya do and it starts working out, dont jump in that hot tub on that first date lol

do something without alot of pressure on either of you( can be hard on you anyways lol ) and that you'll both enjoi!

yep been there, she even told me she liked me in 10th grade, we had been good friends since 6th grade, damn I'm an idiot. Well 11th grade she turned into a skank so I can't regret it too much. But it does make me think, had I asked her out, would she have still turned into a skank?

Dude Go for it or you WILL regret it. I had the chance at your age and didn't take it, now here I sit at the age of 22 and still haven't had a real "girlfriend" been on a couple dates (that's been a while there aswell) but never found that right one.

I know how you feel, and I agree completely.

come on up and help me! i will atleast have beer and pizza! i am half serious my b2 has me pissed off again.....

86

Never again do I want to do that. Where do you live anyway? The worst part about the whole situation, he destroyed that engine in a month because he is an idiot and beats the shit out of his trucks. He destroyed the original engine because he drove it on 1 quart of oil. Now he has a '91 F-150 with a 300 and that seems to be treating him well though, despite the fact he broke in his brand new clutch by doing a burnout.

 

[86ford]

Never again do I want to do that. Where do you live anyway? The worst part about the whole situation, he destroyed that engine in a month because he is an idiot and beats the shit out of his trucks. He destroyed the original engine because he drove it on 1 quart of oil. Now he has a '91 F-150 with a 300 and that seems to be treating him well though, despite the fact he broke in his brand new clutch by doing a burnout.

Rocky River.

86

 

[lil red]

that night she pulled the im not ready bs
and today the other guy asked her out today
so shes with him because ill wait for her again
whatever when she realizes what hes after shell get it

o well screw it
she lost the best option for a guy she had
were still friends but,whatever

o ya and i did send her a link to this

 

[Insanejughead]

Oh shit... There's too much of this floating in her head!!!

 

[skippy]

ask one of her friends out.seriously,get cracking.

 

[Insanejughead]

I don't know about Lil red, but when I have my heart set on a certain girl like he has, I can't just start dating her friends or anyone else. It does feel right....


It's all about the "not settling for anything less" type thing.


I know I'd feel better if I just started getting back into modifying my pickup alot more. Forget about girls for the moment. This same thing happened to me in early December. I was a bit buzzed from about 5 beers and was talking to her on the phone. I thought the conversation went rather well (I did quite a bit of laughing though, but I was in a good mood all day). I sent her a text afterwards saying that I loved her and that I was glad to talk to her once again (I'm in the military, so we can't see each other all that often)

She sent one back that said "Please stop it. I can't handle you talking to me like that".

Holy crap was I pissed.... I give her all my love and focus and then she just brings that out in the open. Damn I hate secrets that girls don't tell us.

Anyway... I haven't talked to her since because I found that was perhaps a LITTLE too extreme for a guy like me. If she talks to me again... she better have her sh*tting mind set straight!!!

 

[skippy]

read between the lines of my post.

 

[Insanejughead]

read between the lines of my post.

???

 

[skippy]

ok,even if he don't get the date,girls talk-word gets back to her that he is moving on,not sitting home broken hearted.catch my drift?

 

[Insanejughead]

AH!... I got it now!

I somehow did the same thing... but she's not going to know about it at all. I just end up not talking to any of my friends and hardly not talking to my parents. I give up talking and being with people I know.

When in doubt... make new friends. Or ditch them altogether.

 

[skippy]

AH!... I got it now!

I somehow did the same thing... but she's not going to know about it at all. I just end up not talking to any of my friends and hardly not talking to my parents. I give up talking and being with people I know.

When in doubt... make new friends. Or ditch them altogether.

i did some matchmaking in high school and the love came back around at the first reunion.home on leave fom iran hostage ordeal and one of the girls i fixed up with a friend in school,wore me out.i was ready to go back.

 

[JohnnyO]

that night she pulled the im not ready bs
and today the other guy asked her out today
so shes with him because ill wait for her again
whatever when she realizes what hes after shell get it

o well screw it
she lost the best option for a guy she had
were still friends but,whatever

o ya and i did send her a link to this

That happens. At 16 no one knows what they want. Shoot, I got divorced at 40, started dating again, and most don't know what they want then either.

 

[lil red]

ya she said she really liked me more than him,but weve been close friends for a while and didnt want that to change,which i get, o and shes telling me i should go out with her one friend
so she has another boyfriend for me to piss off , its fun as hell to me and her
and im probably gonna go out with her friend,but im not sure yet

 

[PaleBlue90]

ya she said she really liked me more than him,but weve been close friends for a while and didnt want that to change,which i get, o and shes telling me i should go out with her one friend
so she has another boyfriend for me to piss off , its fun as hell to me and her
and im probably gonna go out with her friend,but im not sure yet

i would just be single, focus on school,job (if you have one), and your trucks. ever scince my x dated mne then cheated on me with guys and one of my friends, i stoped looking and careing about who wants to date me and who thinks im good looking.if i pass 4 of my classes next year i only have to come back for 2 classes next year then ill graduate. just try not to worry yourself to death lil red. good luck on all this