no man, the seperator plate has a hole cut out that the starter fits in to. I have a suspicion that the..
Ill put it this way. imagine that you have the starter on and the bolts in finger tight but not tight. the holes in the starter are sloppy and the starter may be allowed to move around. it may not be pressed close enough to the flexplate to allow the starter teeth to engae the flexplate teeth. get under your car and try it. i bet with the bolts finger tight you can still move the starter left and right and up and down.
do you see what im saying? the shim effect of the seperator plate isnt the issue, its locating the starter close to the teeth on the flexplate