Well first off... I said nothing about a what did you say 265/75/16? I said 265 wide tire. A 30" tire is already going to have less ground clearence then a 32" tall tire.
Airing down a tire has nothing to do with the aspect ratio either... A 235/85/16 is a 10 ply tire so the sidewall is alot stiffer so yes airing it down is safer because its designed to bear weight even at low pressures. Ply rating aside if you air down a 32" tall tire to 10psi and a 30" tire to 10 psi they are more then likely going to sit at a similar height because the sidewall just bows out on both of them the higher aspect ratio will bow out more giving a percentage wide larger contact patch because the sidewall bows out more, but overall you have the same ground clearance as a 30" tire.
Dude... that site i believe is complete BS... Yes in some cases its better to have a skinny tire like rock crawling where you want alot of pressure on the rocks, but on sand and stuff you want a wide tire to distribute the weight.
A skinny tire will have less deformation because of the increased pressure on the contact patch. All the pressure is concentrated on keeping the form of the tire, where as a wide tire has less pressure to keep its form. And you saying a skinny tire aired down (which you say is wider then a wide tire) will have more pressure on an object even though as soon as its aired down it has the same charecteristics of a wide tire. so yes an aired down skinny tire will deform better then a wide tire aired down because the skinner tire is wider then the wide tire (as you say...)
I'm sorry but the physics and everything is just wrong with your statement not to mention you have contradicting arguments A skinny tire is wider then a wide tire when aired down (I can see this being true), thus having more surface area or contact with the road/dirt/gravel ect..( also true) but will have more pressure then a wide tire that has less contact (this is false beyond belief, because the pressure is the same per tire as you have not changed the weight of the vehicle. Lets say a 4,000lb ranger is sitting on tires one set skinny one set wide. Both the skinny and the wide tires are getting 1000lbs to each tire. Aired down a skinny tire has more surface area to spread that weight we will say 5x7 as you state (35" squared) 1000 lbs divided by 35" = 28.57lb's per square inch, while the wide tire 5x6 (30" squared) 1000lbs divided by 30" = 33.33lbs per square inch. the wide tire has more pressure to it but overall each tire is still getting 1000lbs), Oh and airing down a tire to the point where the sidewall bulges and contacts the ground your losing ground clearence either way, weather its a 32" skinny tire or a 30" wide tire the ground to rim height is the same on both so both trucks now have the EXACT same ground clearance whic his lower then inflated. And as I mentioned earlier a wide tire has a better chance of deforming. As for wanting a wider tire off road... yes you want both a wider AND Taller tire (I thought you were talking about tread width not height.) No duh a taller tire is better! Depending on what type of off roading you do you need to chose skinny or wide. Skinny for snow and rocks maybe while wide for trails and sand.
Oh and not to mention the fact that the OP didn't say anything about airing the tires down (because he is looking at mileage life of the tires I assume he won't air them down much)or needing a heavy 10 ply tire... He said he wants wide tires to go mess around in the fine New mexican dirt and to look cool which pretty much makes your argument to the OP useless.
So I'm sorry you can't understand physics and rely on other sources for untrue stuff. Granted some of the stuff you are saying is true but most of it really doesn't make any sense what so ever to me as to why anyone would think it would work.
And I would like to apologize to Matthew for this argument...
I would get the AT2's in the 265 tread and have Fun!

(actually I personally would get MT's to be BA but 60000 miles you can't beat that lol)