The speedo shouldn't be an issue at all, your cable will just plug right in.
Backup lights need one pigtail kit, readily available from Ford, you just take the wires for the backup lights out of the connector on the trans range sensor, attach the plug for the manual trans switch, and plug it in.
Completing the park neutral circuit is similarly simple, take the two wires for that circuit at the TR plug, cut them, and splice them together. Adding the clutch switch is optional, but recommended.
As for the column shifter, what to do about it is up to you. Once the auto trans is gone it won't really do anything but confuse people.
A trip the whole way to Bristol and back is a bit much just to deliver a trans, but I am currently sitting on the waiting list for a training class in Exton. Since you aren't looking to make the swap until September or October that gives a lot of time. I should get into a class by then, and since I'd already be making 2/3 of the trip one way or another I'd be more than willing to bring it with me then.