Well, It would be easier to just use the 2.8 starter. The bigger A4LD flywheel would reduce the load on the starter and the a4ld starter is gear reduction so I would think it would last much longer than the 2.8. The 2.8 is MUCH cheaper to buy a replacement for though.
The 2.8 also has only 1 wire going to it. That is one less wire to have a problem with. The A4ld starter has Battery power to it at all times, just brings back bad memories of my Chevy days of battery cables melted to the headers.
I would just run the 2.8 and keep a spare around.
On the other hand, If you use the A4LD starter it will reduce confusion later.