wow you really have a lot of time on your hands haha. Of course i asked for help here, but i figured most of the problems out by myself of with my dads help. it's hard for people to diagnose things over the internet.
But guess what I have learned alot along the way thanks to many other members of this forum... not you so much. I want to tell you a story my granpa told me...
A driver hit an overpass on the freeway with his 18-wheeler and was stuck pretty good. He was scratching his head along with CHP officers and other bystanders tyring to figure out how to get his rig out. Along comes a man with his 5 year old son, and the kids asks, "why don't they just let the air out of the tires?". Well they let the air out of the tires and whatdaya know, he drove it out.
Moral of the story is even the person you think might be the dumbest guy in the world can teach you something. Just because you're older than most of the other members does't mean you have to be an arrogant jackass all of the time. Theres a difference between trying to help and just being a know-it-all. You don't have to belittle people to show how smart you are.