If the relay is clicking, then you're good between the switch and the relay (the click is the relay coil working relay contacts). So yes, now you need to look the relays outputs.
First, confirm that both relays click- one should click when the switch is pushed LOCK, and the other relay should click when the switch is pressed UNLOCK.
Make sure that both relays are clicking as described. If not find the issue between the switch and the relays first. If both click, check the two relay outputs together as follows.
Set meter to DC VOLTS. The meter's red lead, black lead doesn't matter for these tests. Poke one meter probe into the lock relay connector, on the pink / black (117) wire terminal. Poke the other meter probe into the unlock relay connector on the pink / orange (118) wire terminal.
Operate the doorlock switch both directions (LOCK and UNLOCK). Pass = seeing the meter alternatively read + 12 volts and then "-" 12 volts (negative 12 volts) as the switch is cycled back and forth.
Note that these wire colors, pink / black (117) and pink / orange (118), are the lock and unlock wires to both of the actuators in the doors, and they should retain these colors throughout. You can use the meter, and the test I just described, on these two wires at any point between the relays and actuators. Also note that your meter may not "see" a full 12 volt reading, when the actuators are working (operating actuators will create a voltage drop). The circuit operation is called "reversal, rest at ground". The 117 and 118 wires are normally grounded, until one relay activates, which changes one of the wires to + 12 volts. The second wire stays grounded, which completes the circuit.
Keep beating on it, man. You're actually doing good.