Make sure you are in Park
Open the hood and locate Starter Relay(often called starter solenoid) on inner fender
It will have two larger post and 1 or 2 smaller posts
One of the larger post will have Battery Positive cable on it, along with several other wires, just FYI this is the Power Distribution post for the whole vehicle, if it uses 12volts is connected here, EXCEPT for the starter motor
The other larger post will just have 1 larger cable, it goes to starter motor
Only 1 of the smaller posts(if there are 2) will have a wire on it, a red/blue wire usually, this is the "S" post, it WILL have an "S" next to it, have a look
Starter relay can look like this one:
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The red push on/pull off connector is on the "S" post in picture
Pull it off
Use a short jumper wire from Battery Positive post to "S" post, starter motor should activate
If you just hear a "CLICK" but no starter motor then most likely the starter is bad
If there is no "CLICK" then starter relay is bad(or its ground to inner fender is rusted out)
If you get the "CLICK" and start motor works then the Red/blue wire is not working, the "S" wire
When you turn the key to START the ignition switch send 12volts on the red/blue wire to starter relay to activate it, just like you did with jumper wire
But............that 12volts also has to pass thru the NSS(neutral safety switch) on the drivers side of transmission
Its just above the shifter
If you have a 12v test light or volt meter you can test if the red/blue wire at the starter relay has 12volts with key turned to START