I ended up in an argument with a guy just recently, he demanded that he needed a paper gasket because "that's how Ford made it." But of course, nobody local stocks a paper gasket locally, everyone has to order one in. The only other option is to make your own, but that was unacceptable to the guy too. He ranted and raved even though I explained to him that Ford used silicone from the factory. He insisted that it used a paper gasket because "they don't leak like that silicone crap."
I didn't even know there was gaskets for our axles until just recently, I always used Permatex Ultra Black for my diff gaskets. And I clean the mating surfaces with BrakeClean.
When I replaced my front diff on my F-150, someone at one time had used about two or three tubes of this red or grey (can't remember the color) stuff to seal it up (it leaked anyway), but the stuff was ridiculously hard to get apart. I had to use a couple pry bars to get the diff out and cleaning that crap off was crazy, a razor knife wanted to just run over the surface and not cut it. Spent a lot of time working in the freezing cold by worklight in the driveway with snow falling trying to clean that crap off.