Cylinders on Fords are number this way, on V6 or V8 numbering starts on passenger side front to back then to drivers side front to back
So V6 would be
3 6
2 5
1 4
front
So #2 would be middle of passenger side
Ford calls passenger side bank 1, and drivers side bank 2
People often put dielectric grease in the BOOTS of spark plug wires, NOT on the metal parts that are suppose to conduct the spark
Dielectric grease prevents moisture intrusion and can keep the boots from getting stuck to spark plug or coil pack
Dielectric grease is used because it does NOT conduct electricity like other types of grease can, so avoid getting it on the metal conductors of wires, clean it off if seen on the metal parts
Ford Motorcraft Spark plug wires last about 10 years before they need to be changed, other brands less
FYI, Chevy/GM numbers cylinders this way, start on Drivers side and cross over to other side then back to drivers side
So GM V6 would be
6 5
4 3
2 1
front
So odd and even bank numbers
So #4 would be correct if it was a GM engine/vehicle