Things to check:
Check spark quality. Pull the coil wire off the distributor and stick a thick handled screw driver in the end. Without touching the body yourself hold it 1/4 to 1/2 inch from the hood prop rod and have someone crank the engine. You should get a strong blue snapping spark. If you get shocked, you need new wires. If you get a crappy weak orange or yellow spark just rebuild the ignition system. You are supposed to replace the coil TFI and pickup together.
Check the fuel pressure regulator. Just pull the line off and look for fuel in it.
A running fuel pressure test in your case is problematic because as the engine begins to idle erratically it will simulate high throttle position and allow the fuel pressure to come up. Check it, but you are only looking for the pressure to drop below 25 PSI, not a likely suspect IMO.
Check plugs for carbon, fuel, or oil fouling and for any that look steam cleaned.
Unplug the O2 sensor and try again. If it goes away, get a new sensor.
If this only happens shortly after refueling (as the original post suggests) remove the orange line from the bottom of the throttle body and plug the port somehow. Try again. You may have at some point flooded the carbon canister. That can also cause some unusual issues right after filling the tank.
Lastly, if all else fails, put a vacuum gauge on the intake and rev the engine by hand. If it starts generating pressure instead of holding vacuum you have a massive exhaust restriction. Or someone installed a turbo. Start disconnecting pieced of the exhaust one by one until it begins running properly.