Pulling the engine.
Take this into consideration. The 4.0 engine is small but it is by no means easy to work on, scrunched down on the floor of your garage.
For my money, the best way for you to change your oil pan gasket it to pull th engine. IF . . . you don't have to rent a hoist, rent a engine stand, and you have enough tools. You can turn the motor over, check the pan/block/gasket alignment and be sure you are getting it right. But you really need access to those tools to make it worth pulling the engine.
At the same time you might want to check some other things - great time to change the plugs if they need it, even the water pump if you are suspicious.
Mine is an automatic. I disconnected the wiring harness from the transmission, snaked it out on top of the engine and nothing else has to be disconnected from the top of the engine.
That's just my suggestion.