My 1/2 cents . . .
Just go nice and easy,
-Figure out what kind of changes or improvements you want to make, such as gear ratio, do you want limited slip or open differential, or locked front and rear, do you want Dana 28 or 35, 7.5 or 8.8 rear axle ?? having this figured out will prevent you having to change it at a later time. Do you want ac, etc, etc, is there rust issues that can be resolved while making the swap . . . etc etc . . .
-Pick a donor vehicle that is the same body style (extended or standard cab) so that way everything transfers over nicely.
-When it comes to bolting up the new cross member use the appropriate grade and size of bolt (this is to hold cross member in place so it can be welded back into place and to reinforce the rivets that you ground off and pounded out). I used grade 8 cuz the larger grades are stronger, yet more brittle and will shear off and are a pain to drill out (my bro-in-law is a millwright and recommended this route)
-Don't skimp on safety, use the appropriate safety gear (ear plugs & safety glasses/face shield) any injuries suffered now will affect your level of fun with your toy later on, not to mention quality of life issues.
-Take generous amounts of pictures, things may not be as clear as it was several months ago when it was disconnected/disassembled, so come up with a way to tag stuff (like numbers or the alphabet).
-Search other threads on this topic, there is a wealth of info around here!
-While everything is apart, now would be the time to replace timing chain, oil pump, etc, or do a rebuild if you prefer peace of mind.
-Be patient with your build, there will be times when you may be tempted to go and get a bigger hammer or torch or wrecking ball and force it to your whim . . . that can be a potentially expensive mistake!
-Decide now what kind of engine you want (do you want to save gas and use a 2.9 or stick something bigger in?)
-Keep me posted on your progress and best of luck!