ive had my oil pressure gauge for 5 years now. my dad has one in his bronco thats been there for 17 years. back in the day, mechanical oil pressure gauges came standard. they are extremely reliable and ive heard of virtually no failures that caused oil to leak that werent preventable with proper line routing.
on a properly sealed gauge, oil rarely reaches the cab. i have a few little bubbles of oil in mine, but mostly air. there is no heat transfered up the line.
60 PSI is nothing to contain. the crush fittings and nylon (or copper, if you choose) tubing is the same stuff used in compressed air systems of excess of 150 PSI. semis use it to control their brakes (which is just a little more vital than a pressure gage).
installing a mechanical pressure gauge is far from "crazy"