let me ask you...

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[Redneckryder]

the party is for the kids, not you, and if you throw a party, its not up to anyone to offer to pay for it. if you want him to pay for half, call him and tell him that is what is expected of him if he is to attend. that being said, my sons mom has her own party and i have my own mainly because i dont want to be around her and dont want her around me. gently tell the kids mom how you feel and let her decide. she is the parent and you dont want to step on toes that if you break up she will have to mend alone.

 

[Jim Oaks]

I was married for 14-years. I have an 11 & 13 year old.

I think him and his girlfriend should have their own party.

If my kid wanted a party and asked if his mom could come, I wouldn't tell him no, but I surely don't go out of my to invite her.

Thinking back, I've always seen my kids on their birthdays. I don't even know if their mom has a party for them......

 

[feellnfroggy]

He can throw his own party, the last thing the kid needs is to witness any tentions between mom and dad or you and him. My ex when her kid had birthdays, she had her time with daddy and her time with us. Holidays too.

 

[Redneckryder]

leave. i dont want to sound like an asshole, but she talks him up and puts you down, lets him come to the parties knowing it annoys you, etc. etc, she aint over him. my wife has the same say over my son as his mom does and anything less than that is a slap-in-the-face insult.

 

[feellnfroggy]

+10

 

[7.5L_STX]

id tell her to **** off and go back to him if shes not happy...just my .02 though and im pretty drunk right now soooooooooooooooo, IDK where i was going with this?

 

[grey ghost]

i'd say it's time to move on and find another girlfriend.. if she's acting like that then i agree she thinks more of the sperm doner.. imho

 

[7.5L_STX]

Oh yeah I Remembered now, it seems to me like you are trying to be the best dad that you can be in the given circumstances and that is something she should admire but if she doesnt notice that your a good dad then **** her and she doesnt deserve you apparently...maybe a little drastic but rmember im a little bit drunk right now so dont take anything personallyyyyyyy

 

[Chance]

I'm gonna have to agree with the above statements... as hard as it is to hear I know, you should leave her. Respect is extremely important in a relationship and if you don't have that, what's the point?

 

[7.5L_STX]

did i mention she sounds like a total bitch and im getting really tanked here

 

[Redneckryder]

yes, i think they get that picture 91stx.

x100000 on respect. cant have love without respect. you took over her kids no questions asked, most guys wouldn't do that. if she cant see that then you dont want no part of it