I usually re-use drums until they're obviously in bad shape (my f-150 the lip edge of the drum rusted off). The wear limit on the shoes is, IIRC, 2/32" over the rivets. If a spring kit looks to be in new condition (pretty much all the paint still on the springs and they're tight as heck), I have a tendency to re-use them. Otherwise, I'll throw a new spring kit on 'em. I try to use the adjusters but more often than not I end up replacing them (I live in the rusty steel buckle of the rust belt). I grease the heck out of new adjusters because of that. I'll throw a small dab of grease on the spots where shoes rub on the backing plates because backing plates are not overly cheap or easy to do. Wheel cylinders I do only when I have to replace brake lines or they prove to be bad (leaking or do not move freely - when you tear the brake drum apart, I push the wheel cylinder back and forth a couple times, if it's not moving relatively easily, it's probably not long for this world). Make sure your emergency brake cables are moving freely too, if not it's a good time to replace them while you have it all apart.
I don't mind drum brakes. They can be a PITA, but I'd rather do those than pack grease into front wheel bearings, that's just a messy job.