How to disconnect the 4r44e connector??

[meck]

What's the secret to disconnecting the main connector on the 4r44e transmission. I want to test some circuits but am having trouble seeing how to get the connector separated. I don't want to break it. Thanks.

 

[adsm08]

Pull the blue cover off, there is a 10mm bolt holding it together.

 

[Transman304]

No bolt on the E model. It has a metal bail that needs to be unlocked and then pull straight out on connector. If this is the connector you are referring too.
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[meck]

Thanks for your answers nad, yes, that is the right connector. I haven't been back under it this morning, but I'm hoping it has the bolt, not the metal bail. Is the bail hard to remove? There's not a lot of room to work.