Junkie, 45,000 miles on that same bearings? Minimal servicing or regreasing? C'mon...
People frequently crank on the spindle lock nuts too hard, which is cause for excessive heat and wear, sure. But a bearing lasting as long as you're stating...really?
I know better than to call you a liar, but I'm impressed more than anything else.
Well, I'm not sure what else I can tell you... other than that I maintain my vehicles.
I won't fully swear to it, but I am fairly certain they are the OEM bearings from '94 (axle originally was under my Ranger, which I have owned since new). There's an additional 25K or so on it with 33x12.50s from when the axle was under the Ranger.
I clean & repack the bearings about every 20K miles (or if I get into deeper-than-hub-deep mud for any length of time, which is very rare for me, I hate mud).
BobbyWalter I know has also complained pretty loudly about bearing issues, so perhaps it's not that hard for one to make a mistake when setting them up. However by no means whatsoever am I the only one here who has not had issues with them.
As I also told Bobby, I tighten the bearing nut to 35ft-lbs... Spin the rotor back & forth a bunch of times... Back the nut off and then pretty much retighten it using just my fingers before spinning the outer nut on to around 225-250ft-lbs. I do the same thing with the D44 that displaced this D35 from under my Ranger... Same thing, never had an issue with it.
Grease is regular lithium-base "disc-brake" (a.k.a 'Hi-Temp') wheel bearing grease (not using fancy synthetics or anything). I've mostly used Castrol grease, thought it's seen Sta-Lube brand grease once or twice also.
Certainly I have no reason to lie about it.
You haven't been mixing bearings & races, have you? (using the chinese POS races that come preinstalled in most new rotors, for example) Very often that can lead to failed bearings in very short order.