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Giving my Ranger to my son

Which should be the way to go

  • Give him the truck. Honor my word.

    Votes: 1 1.5%
  • Give him the car since it is really a smarter option for a kid.

    Votes: 36 55.4%
  • Start him off with the car and then give him the truck when he's ready.

    Votes: 18 27.7%
  • Let him choose.

    Votes: 10 15.4%

  • Total voters
    65
  • Poll closed .

Sometimes a parent has to pull the "hard love" card and go against what was promised. Give him a choice between the Corolla or some other POS that you can get for cheep. Make sure to explain to him the decision though. If he's interested in your truck, come later in life, he will understand your decision and appreciate both you and it more.
 
When I bought this truck a few years ago it was with the intent of being a DD and one day giving it to my son when he was 16. He will be 16 in November. He has shown zero interest in the truck and has not helped much at all with the 5.0 swap. He will be driving 25 miles round trip to school and my Corolla would be MUCH better for that. Plus the car has A/C. Should I make good on what I said and give him the truck, give him the car since it would be much more practical for him and would likely last him through college, give him the car until he shows he's responsible enough for the truck, or give him the option from the start? The car is in pretty good shape, needs a few cosmetics, but runs great. Gets 38MPG on the highway too. My guess is the truck will get <20.

Did you actually tell him that you were buying the truck with the intent of giving it to him some day? If that was just what was going through your head when you bought the truck, and never said I wouldn't consider it going back on your word.

My first vehicle was my 84 Ranger (RIP), and everyone in the family knew I wanted it years before I turned 16. It was my dad's until I was about 8 then he sold it to my aunt, then it was sold to grandma and loaned back to the same aunt. I think I decided I wanted it at about 12, because I remember telling a friend in my new scout troop that I wanted to put nos on it, and dad smiling said that it was plenty fast enough with out it. He should have known he built the truck back in the late 80s. My grand mother gave me the keys to the truck when I turned 16 (July 2001). About a week later me and dad went down to my aunt's land where it had been mostly sitting for about two years. Dad was apparently happy to have the truck back, he wouldn't let me drive it back and I couldn't keep up with him on the return trip. FWIW I was driving his V8 F-150, and actually trying to keep up. After getting it home my dad and I got it running right, gave it a much needed tune up, replaced the flex exhaust my cousin put on with good pipe. Then he painted it for me new year eve of the same year, that's the only part of the rebuild I didn't help with. No A/C and almost exactly as described in my Sig. Drove it daily (with the exception of 6 month license suspension) until late 2005 when I bought my 99. Still drove it often until I wrapped it around a pecan tree in late 2009.

I say all of that to point out that I really did care about the truck and still wasn't able to keep it up properly. If it had been in today's economy I would have gladly taken mom's 92 Tempo for a daily driver, it got good gas mileage, and had AC. Might have looked like a sky blue turd and been slower than a snail, but at least I could afford to drive it and not roast in the summer heat.

I would have voted for "buy him a disposable $900 POS", but it wasn't an option.

:iamwithstupid:

My parents refuse to give my sister a vehicle and she's 20. She doesn't care much about vehicles other than they get her out with friends. Never even thinks about regular maintenance on the truck (02 Ranger 4x4) they let her drive. Luckily she still lives with my parents so dad keeps an eye on it. Think dad's going to take it back when he buys mom a new car, and give her mom's Taurus. It's an 02 as well but is very high miles and close to it's last leg anyway.

I ramble to much, but I vote for loan him the car, but check on it often. Or if you are planning to part with it any way, give it to him. When he has problems let him learn the hard way.


BTW, dad's excited to see that I bought another first gen and am building it as my own. Thought he does think I'm going a little overboard with it, he's probably right.
 
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If he apreciated the Ranger and had an interest in it, then I'd say give it to him. But when someone doesnt care for a vehicle, then usually it goes to hell within a few months.

You've met my youngest brother, I gather.

I gave my '84 to my brother after being brow-beaten by my mother ('you have two cars, Randy has none', etc - nevermind that he HAD a car until he assholed some girl at a stoplight and totalled it). Gave him the truck, told him to drive it like he had a brain and it would last, drive like he normally does and it wouldn't see six months.

It didn't.

My mother: "There's something wrong with the truck you gave Randy"

Me: "Yeah, Randy is what's wrong with it. He's on his own, and no he can't use my car. Ever."



Dave you need another choice: I vote for make him earn his right to drive, and buy his own car.

Maybe if he has to drop some coin on a purchase he'll understand the value.
 
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You've met my youngest brother, I gather.

I gave my '84 to my brother after being brow-beaten by my mother ('you have two cars, Randy has none', etc - nevermind that he HAD a car until he assholed some girl at a stoplight and totalled it). Gave him the truck, told him to drive it like he had a brain and it would last, drive like he normally does and it wouldn't see six months.

It didn't.

My mother: "There's something wrong with the truck you gave Randy"

Me: "Yeah, Randy is what's wrong with it. He's on his own, and no he can't use my car. Ever."

I hate people who treat cars as disposable things. It's OK if you're lazy and pay to have your oil changed or don't want to do some googling and simple wrenching in the driveway, not everyone is as mechanicaly savvy as the average "car person" but at least get it changed/fixed/tuned up. I hate pulling up to a redlight and hearing some god awful noise coming from the lane next to me.

I would of said "make him pay for it himself" but speaking from the eprspective of a young guy trying to find work (WITH a truck in my driveway that needs an engine rebuild to run) I wouldn't be THAT harsh unless he is also careless about money.
 
Yeah I agree, if he don't show interest he doesn't deserve it. I would be much more willing to give a kid my truck if he was generally interested in it even if I knew it would get beaten as long as he did his own work or atleast helped out in fixing what he broke.

What I am thinking here is that he just wants to get a sweet ride for free without having to do anything...

I also think the buying his own car is a good idea but I am also in agreement with the people that hand down a vehicle, its nice when you don't have to pay for the vehicle... and if it breaks just make him pay the bills or fix it himself he will learn to treat it right REAL fast.
 
I think my dad did the right thing when he bought my first car for me for $75. It was an ugly 86 midsize Ford LTD with the 3.8 TBI v6. He didn't force me to, but I did all my own work to it. He probably knew I was going to beat the piss out of it, which I did frequently. I put a cheap paint job on it and tried to keep it nice until a deer ran into the fender when I was barely moving. After that I was like screw it and didn't really care anymore. Good God did I abuse that car, but it never let me down except once when I ran the battery down playing the radio.

Josh
 
This shouldn't even be a question, if he doesn't have an interest in the truck, don't give it to him, simple as that.
 
I told him he's driving the Corolla. IF he can show responsibility, keep a job (he has to pay the difference in my insurance if he wants to drive), take care of the car, make grades AND shows an interest in the truck, he can have it later on. But for now he gets the car. My wife reminded me that I would be sick if he wrecked the car, but if he wrecked the truck I would be crushed ( and would probably not trust him to drive after that) since I have put so much time and $$ into it. I love that woman.
 
When I bought this truck a few years ago it was with the intent of being a DD and one day giving it to my son when he was 16. He will be 16 in November. He has shown zero interest in the truck and has not helped much at all with the 5.0 swap. He will be driving 25 miles round trip to school and my Corolla would be MUCH better for that. Plus the car has A/C. Should I make good on what I said and give him the truck, give him the car since it would be much more practical for him and would likely last him through college, give him the car until he shows he's responsible enough for the truck, or give him the option from the start? The car is in pretty good shape, needs a few cosmetics, but runs great. Gets 38MPG on the highway too. My guess is the truck will get <20.

I have to make up my mind by the time he gets back from Florida for the summer so the poll is only open for 60 days.



I told him he's driving the Corolla. IF he can show responsibility, keep a job (he has to pay the difference in my insurance if he wants to drive), take care of the car, make grades AND shows an interest in the truck, he can have it later on. But for now he gets the car. My wife reminded me that I would be sick if he wrecked the car, but if he wrecked the truck I would be crushed ( and would probably not trust him to drive after that) since I have put so much time and $$ into it. I love that woman.


There! Now....wasn't that easy!
 
Maybe it will be a graduation present...


:icon_confused:


B.A ?

M.A.?

DOCTORATE ?


Just pickin' again.........You'll make the right decision at the right time!!!!
 

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