Slot #1 and #2 ???
Its a big truck, electrically, lol
Ford used two types of relays
Micro, seen here:
http://www.gtsparkplugs.com/images/micro-automotive-relay-wiring.jpg
And Mini, seen here:
http://www.gtsparkplugs.com/images/mini-relay-diode-wiring.jpg
These are the pin/slot numbers you should use for relays as they are common/standard
Ford used 1 to 4 or 5 but it changed all the time, lol, so not at all standard
85 and 86 are often 1 and 2 on Ford diagrams, one needs to be 12v and the other a ground for relay to activate
There is no polarity assigned, either can be 12v and the other the ground, but must be both to activate relay
Many Ford(GM) relays are Ground activated, so relay gets 12volt with key on, but the computer or a switch activates the Ground to activate the relay
This reduces the 12volt wiring in a vehicle, so reduces the chances of a short
If a ground wire shorts a device/relay just activates
If a 12v wire shorts a fuse blows(best case) or wires start to smoke and melt(worst case)