Do you have a haynes or chilton manual? I don't want to "read the manual" to you, but I skimmed the troubleshooting, pondered, re-read your first post, pondered and I am back to fuel or air - before it actually starts it is basically brain dead, the computer plays little role before it catches and starts.
Hard to start HOT has very few causes which is why I kinda latched onto fuel system - It's basically all fuel when that problem shows up...
The first post says there is an issue with it loping. That is the one thing that doesn't point to fuel or spark plugs (and you said you have thrown all new at both of those systems basically).
I'm about to say you got multiple issues.
From what you have done and where you are now, I would check the whole air intake system quickly then check the fuel injectors - swap em out with another set if you have some. The reman on those is very good you almost never get junk reman'd injectors I understand (still running on factory here)....
anyhow here's the troubleshooting page from Haynes:
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