If you let the plugs run forever it will overstress the coilpacks. I changed the plugs at 75k in my '02 and it still runs like a champ at 90k.
The only reason they get a bad rep is because people think they should run forever with no maintenance, they are more of a precision engine than most and don't like that.
agreed... if people did routine maintenance it wouldn't USUALLY be a big deal.