So a little update...
Talked to the service manager, and he seemed pretty annoyed that I didn't drop the issue. I explained that I had emailed and he replied with "I didn't get a email" I explained to him what I did and that I was going to push the issue still. He said that he would have to remove the axle cover and count the teeth to confirm the gearing. He also said that he never heard of rotating the wheel twice and counting the rotations of the drive shaft, and that the only way to confirm is by counting the teeth, so he "can prove it to me"
I have an appointment this friday so he can count away, as he doesn't seem to believe me at all.
So I looked online and I found that the ring / pinion tooth count is 41-11 for 3.73 gearing, and 41-10 for 4.10 gearing. Is this correct? I would like to know the numbers of teeth before I take my truck in, just in case he tries to bull shit me.