Your gonna have to mess with it. trust me I have gone through this process and it ain't easy or fun. What i would do it just keep on twisting and pulling it and shake it. If it pours transmission fluid, don't be afraid to get dirty. That is a sign that it is ready to pop out. Your gonna have to put fresh transmission fluid into it anyways. But other than that, get the end of the transmission pointing up while you tug on it. What you should do when you get the transmission out is replace the y pipe and maybe get a new catalytic convertor. I didn't do it, but if yours is rusted out, that would be a good time to do it while you have the space to do it. I have the clutch replacement process on my build thread. You sure are welcome to get on it. If your have any questions, let me know!