5w-30 is almost the same as 10w30. They are both a 30-weight when they get up to operating temperature. The only difference is a 5w-30 flows better when its colder. 0w-30 flows even better when it's cold, and once again, it's still a 30 weight when it's above freezing. Therefore, I see no advantage to using 10w-30 over 5w30.
IT's about the additive package of viscosity modifiers that make the oil
behave in a specific way.
there are additives that are required to make an oil with
a 6:1 (numerical) spread (like 5w-30) that can be left out
of a 3:1(numerical) like 10w-30.
And besides the specified oil for a 2.9 engine is 10w30.
BTW, enlarging the oil passages to the lifters is not the prefered
method of eliminating a valve tap.
the first most effective way is to swap in cam bearings that aren't
worn Main bearings while you are at it.
The next thing that's required is making your own lifters because
the stock 2.9 lifters are manufactured in such a way that they
collect crap and don't tend to "self bleed", but this is likely to
be expensive
Actually the best method to reduce the tendency of a 2.9 to
tap is to replace it with a 4.0 which was specifically redesigned
in all the problem areas of the 2.9 engine
The tap that some 4.0's are prone to has no relationship to the tap the 2.9's make (4.0's gall their rocker sockets and upper pushrod tips)
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