starter relay problem?

[bobbie58]

i have a 2000 ford ranger 3.0 replaced just about everything , it died driving one day shut it off and wouldnt start just click then got a jump it started ran well then when i got home it would click then sometimes start, then it quit and nothing now if i pull the starter relay and use a jumper wire it starts run but the starter stays engauged , and when i turn the key to start everythings fine, but to stop it i have to pull my jumper wire off and it wont start unless i use the jumper wire, the starter relay clickes when i test it, no differents when i swap relays.