The wires are kind of similar, you should be able to figure out what is what with a volt meter -
My 1988 Ford Ranger/BII EVTM says:
Yellow wire is fused power for the relay and computer (pin #1) - hot.
Fuel pump fused power is also a yellow wire, but a completely different one with the same amperage fuse link - hot.
BK/LG is the computer relay ground.
R/LG is 12 volts from the ignition switch to the computer relay.
Red is power to the fuel pump relay switch side - hot when key is on.
T/LG is the computer relay ground switch side - this is what controls the fuel pumps. - Computer grounds, relay flows power to the pumps.
O/LB is to the fuel pumps - hot when computer grounds the fuel pump relay.
check if computer relay is getting fused power,
if it is, check the red wire for 12 volts on the fuel pump relay harness,
might also check if you're getting a signal from the ignition at the computer relay harness,
check the fused power for the fuel pump relay on the fuel pump harness that you have 12 volts,
check the computer relay ground,
There's a spot on the diagnostic connector that you can ground and supplement the T/LG that trips on the fuel pumps, but if you're not getting any spark, you problem is likely a fuse link, or maybe something with the computer relay (did the small ground connector get disconnected from the battery?).