The dash lights should lose 12volts when key is turned to START, so all voltage goes to start the engine
Starter relay on the inner fender uses its metal base as the ground for the relay so it need to be bolted/screwed down
It has 2 larger Posts
One of these posts will have the battery positive cable and a few other wires, this is the 12v distribution for the whole vehicle
Other larger post will have ONE CABLE, to starter motor, nothing else on this post
Doesn't matter which is which, just needs to be wired the way described
The will be 1 or 2 smaller posts, they will be labelled
1 post will have an "S"
If 2 then the other an "I"
You only ever hook up the "S" post on this type of relay, to a Red/blue wire that comes from transmission switch if automatic or clutch switch if manual
Red/blue wire will have 12v when key is turned to START, no volts any other time
The 12v activates the relay which closes and connects battery positive cable to the starter motor's cable and starter should start to spin the engine
You can apply 12volt to the "S" post with a jumper wire and relay should "click" closed and start motor should start spinning
MAKE SURE you are in PARK OR NEUTRAL!!!!!!!!
Not sure what other relay you are after, EEC relay?
EEC relay powers up computer, fuel injectors and most engine systems
It has a brown base, look at the slots to see what replacement relay will work
Ford used different types of smaller relays
Green Base relay is for fuel pump
Black base is for AC if so equipped
RY71 pins look like this:
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