There have been many tests done on what is or is not the best lubricant to use on Head bolts, Everyone test that I have seen, ARP's assembly lube has been the most repeatable as for the correct torque achieved over & over, I wont use anything else. If you don't have a good torque wrench you need to get one, and your going to need a torque rotation gauge as well, as the head bolts are TTY, torque to a specific setting, release, torque again to a specific setting, then torque an additional amount of degrees, this sets the stretch correctly in the bolt & places it in an elastic zone, where it will give max holding strength & avoid failure.
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