Ok, lets back up a few steps and dumb down the questions....
I messed with something and now it's messed up. What changed?
Well, what did you change?
You replacing your tie rods did not wear out your ball joints and wheel bearings.
Slop in the tie-rod will not hide slop in the ball joints and wheel bearings. It will make it feel worse.
A lot of toe-out will have serious consequences to your handling. Get it aligned properly. With an alignment rack. What you did is called "Kentucky Windage" not "alignment".