You can replace the main bearing seal by removing the transmission and flywheel or flexplate.
On some engines you must also lower the oil pan, not sure on the 2.9l
All engines have blow-by, metal rings against metal cylinder walls don't provide a great seal, just good enough, and yes as rings/wall wear the blow-by will increase.
Best way to test ring/wall wear is a dry then wet compression test or dry/wet leak down test.
Wet being you add a table spoon of oil to the cylinder and then repeat the test, there will always be an increase, the "how much of an increase" tells the story.
2.9l has 9.0:1 compression ratio, so you would expect about 165psi dry, at sea level on compression test.
This is with all spark plugs removed, throttle propped open and a good battery for cranking speed.
If you were getting 140-145 dry and then 165-170 wet I would say you have some ring wear.
If it was 160 dry and 170 wet rings would be normal.
Compression test numbers are variable because of equipment, if you got 130 dry and 140 wet then rings are OK, compression gauge would be in doubt, lol.
Leak down test is when you apply a know pressure to a cylinder and then see how much of that pressure is leaking down(out).
You put the piston at TDC, connect air hose and gauge to spark plug hole, apply known pressure.
Say you applied 100psi and gauge showed 95psi, that is a 5% leak down(newer engine), then you add some oil and spin the crank a few times, put piston back at TDC and redo test.
This time gauge shows 97psi so 3% leak down, rings are fine.
If you got 80psi dry and then 92psi wet the rings are an issue.
But if you got 80psi dry and 85psi wet the rings are OK, valve seats are worn
PCV valve equipped engines are sealed so when engine is running you should have blow-by out the dipstick tube or vent hose or PCV Valve hole if you remove the negative pressure(engine vacuum)
So what you describe doesn't seem unusual when you remove the vacuum pressure(PCV hose).
I would do a toilet paper test

With engine idling remove dip stick and place a piece of toilet paper over opening, it should just sit there maybe even get pulled down a bit.
If pressure is coming out of the hole I would first replace PCV valve and clean it's hose AND the Vent hose.