As noted above, 2002 Fx4 Off Road and 2003+ Fx4 Level II all got the 31spline narrow ranger 8.8". Ford stopped offering the 31spline when they ditched the Fx4 trim package in '09. In '08, they ditched the Level II package, and made many of the Level II specific goodies optional on the Fx4 Off Road....like the 31spline torsen and the Ranchos.
Best way to determine if it's an Fx4 31spline is by seeing the shock mounts and spring perches. Are they spring over? Pop the differential cover off and you'll see this....Torsen T2 differential...
If you don't see anything like that, but you see a spring in between the two side gears that looks like an " S ", you've got a tracloc. Could be 28 spline, could be 31spline. I've heard some dealers replaced the recalled torsens with traclocs.
Another way you can tell too is by the tube diameter. Measure your existing axle(or whatever 28spline 8.8 or 28spline 7.5) at the spring perch. Do the same on the 31spline. 31spine is significantly bigger in circumference and diameter(same thing. lol). I used a string with a sharpie mark to compare...also used a tape measure. You'll also see visually a sharp difference in diameter on the 31spline out by the outer bearing/brake flange. See this pics....
28spline
31spline...note the big 'notch' or 'step'. This is because they both use the same sized bearings.
Ideally, you want as new as possible for low miles. Getting a 2002 with a manual trans is a risky business IMO. Just those give the Fx4 axles a bad rap because of the recall and them blowing up on even auto trucks of early production.
*note: my 08/09 years are a little foggy...I'm not entirely positive on the model year year regards to the Fx4OR and Fx4LII packages.