Buying ammo online, .44 mag is only marginally more expensive than .357. Still a far cry from 9mm, but not prohibitively expensive.
As such, I'm thinking of going with .44 mag. I figure there's no point in .357 magnum since it's still really too powerful for home defense but lacks the awesome power of the .44 mag.
I'm looking at a Ruger Redhawk in .44 mag. For those that aren't familiar with it, it's double action, stainless with wood grips, and barrel lengths from 6" - 8". I need to find a store that has one in stock so I can get a good idea of how it feels. I also like the S&W model 29 in polished blued steel, but the $1300 MSRP is about twice my budget!! Maybe if I find a used one....
I also need to talk to my brother in law, as he is a licensed used gun dealer out east. He could probably find me a good deal.