Using a test light, check for voltage on the neutral safety switch on the trans.
With the truck in park or neutral, ignition on, you should have voltage on both terminals.
If you only have voltage on one terminal, and and it goes away with ignition off, the ignition switch and wiring to the neutral safety switch are good, and you probably have a bad neutral safety switch.
If you have voltage on both terminals, but do not have voltage on the small wire on the fender relay, you have a problem with the wire going to the relay.
If you do not have voltage on either terminal, you have a problem with the wiring/connectors from the ignition switch, or the ignition switch itself.
The wire from the ignition switch to the neutral safety switch is red/lt blu.

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