OK...
In your picture of the crank, you have the timing mark set to about 8* BTDC...this is not where it should be when you are putting the belt on and lining up the marks...the crank notch should be aligned with the mark on the distributor gear...the rotor should be pointing to #1 piston...
If not, that's when you would remove the distributor and adjust it if needed.
When setting the timing, adjust the position of 8* BTDC by turning the distributor with the vac line disconnected while the engine is running. If it won't idle or run properly, slightly adjust the distributor clockwise and try to start the engine.
The timing should read about 8* BTDC at that point. Reconnect the vac line to the distributor and rev the engine. If it bogs or bucks or idles too low, you can then turn the distributor (typically counter clockwise) to fine tune it from there. But with the vac line connected, it will read about 20 to 30* BTDC. That's OK.