Wow, the old wheel bearing tech talk again...
My procedure for wheel bearings:
1. Assemble bearings inside hub, put hub on spindle.
2. Torque inner nut to 30ft/lbs, or until it's "snug"
3. Back inner nut off 1/4 turn, tighten slightly (spec is 25 INCH/lbs, IIRC)
4. Check for side to side play, if there's ANY, tighten slightly.
5. Check to see that the hub turns freely.
6. If all is good, install washer, and adjust inner nut TIGHTER so it lines up with the washer. NEVER LOOSEN! This is what causes bearing play!
7. Install outer nut and get it as tight as you can.
This is the procedure I have done for years. Never had a premature bearing failure, it never loosens up and never gets hot. If you guys are having nuts loosen up or premature bearing failure, it means you had a bad bearing to begin with or installed it wrong.