Took it apart one last time. Went over the intake with a fine tooth come, sealed the crap out of everything. New oring on the map sensor, epoxied the suspect nipple 100% shut from inside out, new gaskets again, tested the egr tube and tightened the crap out of it, cleaned the head mating surface again... I mean there is no freaking way this thing can leak now.
Waiting on a new IAC gasket then going to reassemble tomorrow and hook absolutely no vacuum components up. Plug the evap line, brake booster line, pcv, fresh air to the pcv, EVERYTHING! then run the engine, see if its running correct and start attaching vacuum components one at a time and watch what happens.
If this fails I quit. Trucks for sale.